Broken Families Kids

Today the ratio of divorce increases day by day. Which left a huge impact on their kids for long period. parent’s job isn’t easy, we are all running for success. Every person is involved in their issues in this field. But being a Parent is also your duty. Having a family it’s your decision, or not?

Then you should be responsible for it. We blame the new generation by comparing them with us, but that’s not fair, just think once only kids change and parents didn’t change with time.

Today parents don’t have time for their children. They busy themselves with multiple issues work career relationships beauty neglected their kids. In 2020 minors will mostly suffer from depression. There must be some reason behind the ratio.

Reasons for children’s depression

The main reason behind depression is mostly broken, families.

This issue is faced by every third child of society. Some watching daily drama violence oral violence some suffering ugly relations of their parents and some face separation of their parents. For kids this situation never is easy but they deal with it their way.

With a divorce, a couple of issues are solved but for kids, it’s just started.

Most parents fight for custody of children and it becomes a battle and shatters the kid’s confidence and emotions trust .no kid deserves this. Why it’s so difficult to understand that your kid needs you both even separately. Some minors have to face stepmother or stepfather or both which is also not easy for them. They felt parted into two pieces.

Survey result

● Declining well-being: more than two-thirds of parents need help for their children changing emotions (72%), behavior (68%), and which affect their physical health also (68%).

● Anxiety and depression are most common: Anxiety (40%) and depression (37%) are the most common mental health in today’s children. parents asking for help with professional (30%), ADHD (30%) learning challenges (23%) were also common.

● For children aged 3–17 years with anxiety, more than 1 in 3 also have behavior problems (37.9%) and about 1 in 3 also have depression (32.3%)

Handle with a different way

We understand if you can’t stay happy with your life couples better move on don’t need to tolerate mental or physical torture for anyone. That’s also not a good environment for children to see their parents fighting violent abusive language daily. But there is some way you can handle these sensitive topics more carefully

Do not rush

Firstly, I advise you to choose your partner wisely and do not rush such a decision. Just because she’s beautiful, just because he’s rich, or because your family thinks that’s perfect for you. Marry when you are ready for it. Try to spend time with each other before rushing to make a big decision. Try to understand and accept each other with respect. When you spend time with each other you will get to know each other’s nature and can observe if your relationship will go longer or not. Try to be realistic and practical because life isn’t fairytale.

Family planning

Again do not rush for such a decision. Don’t plan a family just because your surroundings want to see you have a family. Just spend your good and worst time with your partner and see that can you both tolerate each other at your lousy time even or are your partner enough loyal to you to stay forever with you. Then plan a family when you are willing to give time to your future child and family. Because in most cases people rushing become parents and after kids, they felt their marriage was a big mistake and broken up.

Divorce

And third, if after kids you separate your ways then try to make your children comfortable. Don’t ask them to choose one of you that will be the worst thing you can do with your kids. Firstly your divorce will be difficult for him or her and on top parents will start fighting over custody of children. Don’t pressure him more than he tolerates, do not forget divorce between husband and wife, not between children and parents. Kids need both of you. Try to talk with them in a positive environment. they believe you are not changing, nothing will change ever and it’s good for everyone before its turns bad. Spend more time with them separately handle with care love and don’t please backbiting about your husband or wife to the. Maybe they become your ex but he or she still your kid’s parent, it disturbed them more and they start making assumptions that who’s responsible for his stage.

Medical help

Observe your children’s behavior. He is happy or sad mostly. He gets angry quickly or quite now mostly school grates. If you find these symptoms then please don’t feel ashamed to ask for medical help for him.do not make the situation more difficult for him by not taking them to the doctor. Also, try to help them understand their situation and get out of your problems for some time to see what they are going through. They need your time and love. Try to show them positivity in this decision. Do not poison their mind for each other. Maintain a respectable relationship with each other for just sake of your kids. Because being a broken kid isn’t good.it takes years to get out of it.

Children delicate like flowers need extra care with love.

By

Amber Ahmed